Living Life

I’ve legit had some fantastic days outside of the big events obviously.  My wedding, my children being born, etc…  I’ve been excited to be an author of two books.  I’m hoping eventually that will lead to me being a full time author one day.  The marketing aspect of it all is the most difficult. Joe Rogan often speaks about a human not suppose to be locked up all day, and I truly believe that.

That’s one of the main reasons I love to coach High School football.  I get to be outside with some amazing kids, coaches, and friends.  I’m stressed out more, but I’m also happier if that makes sense.  I’m outside living life.  I’ve recently started taking my son duck hunting.  This is an awesome thing to share with my boy.  The younger generation has so many options for entertainment, that it’s nice to get out in the outdoors and show them their’s  other options out there.

As the long cold winter hits, and i’m forced to be inside longer, that’s no excuse not to go out and build a snowman, go tubing, or skiing.  That’s also a reason I’m thinking about getting more involved in some horse ranching. What better way to make a living than Working with horses and writing books?

All in all with all of the technology that is at our fingertips, (many of it fantastic and useful) be sure to live your life.  Go camping, fishing, hunting, play sports.  All of this will make you a more balanced and happier human.

And Remember buy my book. Tortured Blues available on Amazon.

 

Better website than before

I decided to change my latest manuscript from past to present text.  After reading and re-reading it, I decided it was best for my character to tell the story as opposed to reliving the story.  It’s been much more difficult than I could’ve ever imagined, but it will lead to better writing overall.  Also this is the first blog on my new website http://www.blairredd.com  I”m hopeful that I can consolidate all of my works on this page.

I’ll be bringing weekly blogs from writing, coaching, sports, and all of my other interests in life.  I’ll try and stay away from my family, but sometimes they’re too cute not to blog about.

This next book is some of my finest work, but the marketing will always be my downfall.  I’m not good at it, but it’s almost more important than the actual writing.  Tortured Blues was and still is a good book, but it’s hardly been seen by anyone.

Thanks for taking the time to read, and for the continued support.

Blair Redd

Why I write!

I don’t know how to market, sale, or even promote very well.  Those aren’t my strong suits in life. However, I was blessed to have a love of writing.  I don’t know If I’ll ever sale thousands of books (based on the odds it’s a good chance I won’t) but that doesn’t mean I’m going to stop writing.  Because writing isn’t about making money, becoming famous, or signing books.  If that’s why you want to write a book, then you’re going to be very disappointed.

When you pick up a book as a reader, you don’t read it because that person is famous or rich.  You pick it up and read it because the writing flows, and the story captures you.  The same thing has to be true for a writer.  I write to get to know my characters that are floating around in my head.  I ask myself questions about my characters so I can get to know them.  For example: is Nolan a religious man,  Would Rickey give into temptation and pressures of her boyfriend, would Cory really push it that far?  The more I get to know the characters I write about, the better the story is.  I feel the same way when I’m reading a book.  The better I connect with characters in the story, the more invested i’m into the book

So going back to writing for love, if you don’t love writing, and you get into it for the wrong reasons, you’re probably not going to be successful in the way that you want to be.  However, if you go into writing hoping that someone will pick your book up and feel like your characters are there best friends, then you have the most successful book you could imagine.

Making money on your book isn’t going to happen.  It’s like winning the lottery. You have to hit the right genre, with the right idea, at the right time.  50 Shades of Grey wouldn’t have been as successful in the 1950’s as it is today. The writing would’ve been the same, but we live in a different world today.  Go into writing because you want a reader to love what you’ve written.  If you dream about the almighty dollar from your novel, you’re only going to end up dejected.  And the sky is too blue, the grass is too green, and the summer is too great to feel like that.  Wait until the winter to have a case of the blues.

Passions in life

First and foremost a very Happy Birthday to my oldest who turned 8 today.  Man where does the time go?

I want to have an open discussion on passions.  I have more than one passion and that’s a good thing.  I love my family first and foremost.  They are the reason worth living in my world.  Then obviously I love writing.  If i didn’t have the passion for writing, then I could’ve never finished an English degree from Weber State, or wrote my book Tortured Blues.  (it’s still on amazon)  Writing can take me to another place and time.  I may never know what it’s like to be a drug dealer, or have a handshake agreement with the mafia, but when I write, I can picture myself in that meeting.  It’s a great thing for me personally, and I hope that readers of my books will feel the same way about reading my works

The next passion of mine is clearly and forever my first love of my life… Football.  My dad signed my up to play football when I was seven years old.  Ever since that, I can’t get enough of it.  I played with my heart, soul, and fire that i’ve never had in anything else in my life.  I know there’s a concussion controversy surrounding football, but the benefits of playing football far out weigh the negatives.  I learned to be a part of something bigger than myself when I was on the football field and lesson’s learned only helped me as I became an author, Husband, and father.  I’ve had some great people in my life because of football,  Billy, Matt, Corb, Kevin, Budge, etc… I can’t tell you the lifelong friends one can make from football.

Finally my lord and savior Jesus Christ.  I wouldn’t be where I am today as a man if it wasn’t for his love and sacrifice for the world.  I don’t hide from my faith.

Keep in mind, you need to follow your passions to a certain extent.  Don’t have unrealistic grandiose dreams that aren’t going to come true.  You’ll only set yourself up for failure, and nobody wants or thrives when one fails.  But also keep on plugging away and working hard at your passions, and you will have joy in your life. Have an awesome week.

 

Hate is like poison

The thing about me is simple.  I speak my mind.  Some people may talk behind your back, and murmur against you when you’re not there to defend yourself.  However, that’s not me.  If I have a problem with you you’re going to know about it.  With that being said, I also know that there is a time and place and age to let things go.

I could spend my entire life agonizing over something or someone who I feel has wrong me, been a back biter, or or out and out I don’t like.  That’s not going to solve any problems though.  It’s like drinking poison and hoping the other person you’re mad at gets sick.  Venom and hate are only going to drag you down.  So what do I have to do?  I can have hard feelings, but that won’t do anything.  Kindness and forgiveness is what our life should be about.

I’ve known a lot of people who have chased the almighty dollar, and they may have all the material possessions in the world, some of those things may even bring them joy, but what fun is a massive boat if you don’t have anyone to share it with?  I guess the point I’m trying to make here is that life is too short (I know really bad cliche) to have so much anger.  Do what makes you happy.  Sure not everyone is going to have a job that they jump for joy when they get up in the morning, but that doesn’t have to suck the life and happiness  out of us.  Go outside and take a walk through the park, take your kids fishing, read a book, do service and good for others.  These are all things that can bring us true happiness.  I’m not saying not to provide for your family or buy nice things.  In fact if you have the means then do so, but make sure you have someone in your life to share all the awesome things with.  This world is a lot more fun when you have a travel partner.

Pre-school

I attended my sons pre-school graduation today.  It seems odd that there is a graduation for ever level that a child advances in school now, but that’s neither here nor there.  I don’t remember much about the time that I went to pre-school but I always remember the book orders that we could do.  This was way before the internet and getting a book in the mail from one of those orders was always the most exciting part of school for me.

My sons school also did the book orders, and he was always ecstatic when a new Sponge Bob book came in the mail.  It’s the little things like this that make being an author so much fun.  I hope there’s someone out there who is excited to get my book in the mail, or download it on their tablet.  Being able to take someone to a place they’ve never been before while they’re reading my book is the only reason I write.  I’ve never been to London, but I can imagine I’m there when I’m reading Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows.  I hope that my son is in Bikini Bottom when he’s trying to read his new Sponge Bob books. Have an awesome day.  Until next time